Affairs are exhilarating, no one can deny this. What’s also exhilarating is having unprotected sex. You shouldn’t let this go to your head, however, as it’s the worst thing you could do. There is a range of reasons why, which we’ll be running through below. So, what’re you waiting for?
Your Partner Will Know What You’ve Been Up To
Whether you met someone on swipe-affair.com, or they’re a person you know, they could be sleeping with other people at the same time. Although unprotected sex is fun, sleeping with them means you will catch whatever they have. Most of the time, it would be a harmless STI that you can take care of on your own. Although this can be nasty, it’s not the end of the world.
It can be the end of your relationship though. The chances of you having unprotected sex with your wife are high. So you’ll also give her whatever infection your mistress gave you. The first thing she’ll do is go to a doctor, who’ll inform her that she has an STI. If she hasn’t been unfaithful, you’ll single-handedly ruin your marriage.
You Could Ruin Lives
Maybe your wife hasn’t been the most faithful. If you’ve been unfaithful as well, you can’t expect to get angry at her. The thing is, STIs don’t show up immediately. It takes some time for symptoms to rear their ugly head.
If your wife is promiscuous and has had affairs with multiple people, she could also share the infection you have. So if she has unprotected sex with multiple people, this will result in others catching what you have. This means that you could be ruining lives.
Your Mistress Could Become Pregnant
Throughout the affair, you’ve been doing everything in your power to hide what you’ve been up to. You’ve made all the right moves except for one, you’ve been having unprotected sex. You knocked up your mistress and she’s now carrying your child. This is the worst thing you could do as you probably don’t want a future with her. Instead, she’s just been a way to blow off some steam.
It’s come to the point where your wife needs to know what you’ve been up to, so good luck. That’s not the worst part. You’ll be looking after another kid, which as you can imagine, is hard.
If you don’t knock her up, your wife may eventually forgive you for being unfaithful. This is off the table now.
Your Life Will Be Ruined
The above point can seriously affect your life. However, they aren’t things that will physically ruin you. If you get an STI, most of the time, it will be mild. That being said, you might not take good care of yourself. Without proper treatment, the infection could worsen.
When it comes to diseases like Syphilis, it can be terrible. Your mental health would deteriorate rapidly and you’ll become a shell of the person you were. Not only would it be obvious that you have an STD (which you didn’t get from your wife), your life will be in pieces as well.
Have A Weight Off Your Shoulder
By having protected sex, you have nothing to worry about. None of the nasty things we mentioned would happen. The best thing is, you’ve made it harder for your partner to know what you’ve been up to. This means life’s a breeze.
In a way, this helps with your life back home as you’re less on edge.
Make Your Mistress Happy
Although you might enjoy unprotected sex, your mistress probably doesn’t. She’s most likely only agreeing to it to make you happy. Why don’t you do her a favour and practise safe sex?
Protected sex has a range of benefits, especially when having an extramarital affair. So, did our points resonate with you?
Hi there. My name is Jamie Love and I just LOVE writing about dating, hooking up and extra marital affairs. Why you might ask? Well why not! If you’re interested in any of the topics above then you will love my writing. I have been writing for Privateloveaffair.com as well as a few other sites for a bit longer than 2 years now, and I am really loving it. Hope you find my content interesting, toodles!