If you thought that there was just one type of affair, then think again. There are actually quite a few – and not all of them are physical! If you are interested in finding out which category you fall into, then you have come to the right place. Let’s see what these types are…
The Physical Affair
When most people think of the word “affair”, this is what comes to mind. This is because as far as everyone is concerned, most adulterous interactions are about physical intimacy. Now, to a large extent, this is true.
You may meet someone at work, in your social group, or even a stranger at a bar. With this kind of arrangement, everything is strictly physical – there are no feelings involved. This is often because you are probably just looking for some added fun, but don’t want to disrupt your main relationship.
Physical affairs can be either short-term flings or even last for a much longer time. However, they rarely progress to anything other than a sexual relationship.
The Emotional Affair
On the flip side, you have an emotional affair. It is essentially the complete opposite of a physical dalliance. Here, the two people are connected by emotions. In fact, there is a good chance that they never become physically intimate with one another.
Most of the time, it is simply about talking about each other’s feelings and sharing ideas. People who are a part of an emotional affair may spend hours on the phone talking or texting each other. Nonetheless, they are able to rationalize that “they aren’t doing anything wrong” since there is no adulterous behaviour taking place.
So, how do emotional affairs come to an end? Well, in some cases it may progress to a full-blown, extramarital (or extra-relationship) affair. In other cases, the relationship loses its lustre and you both go back to your old lives.
The Cyber Affair
As technology has become more advanced, it has connected people from all over the country and the world. Now, you don’t even have to be in the same country as some to have an affair with them. This is especially true with great sites like Swipe-Affair.com, where you can meet other people who are looking for some fun.
Some cyber affairs are strictly emotional. Two people will spend ages chatting, video calling, and messaging with each other. However, it isn’t uncommon for these affairs to become more sexual as well. Although they may never actually meet, many people are able to become intimate over the internet.
Now, a cyber affair isn’t the same as a long-distance relationship. With a cyber affair, at least one person may be in another relationship or even be married. This is why it is still considered an affair by traditional standards.
The Sanctioned Affair
Sometimes, an affair can’t actually be even called that. However, it is one way to refer to a sanctioned affair, although it can be considered an “open relationship” as well. This is when both people in a relationship agree to date others. Still, there are boundaries within such an agreement and both parties are expected to live by them.
These are actually being more common than before. Since fewer people believe in true monogamy, it isn’t unusual to find couples branching out. This allows them to maintain a loving relationship but also explore various desires and fantasies.
These are all the kinds of affairs that you can – and may be having. So, which category do you fall into? Or, is your affair actually a mix of a few different types?
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